New York City brings me the "NEW"

They say that everything is energy.  Everything...animals, things, places, thoughts, people both alive and dead.  Everything is energy.  I believe Einstein even proved that in one of his theories.  Of course, it took me four years to get through two years of high school math, so I am probably not the best person to be quoting scientific or mathematical theories.  But, if everything is energy, that would explain how I ended up having such GREAT 'new' experiences while visiting New York City last week.

For starters, I was the little girl who couldn't stop daydreaming to save her life.  From a very young age, I would say 2 years old, I was always always always thinking about growing up and being an actress.  I would think about it on the way to school, as I rode my bike, as I played with friends, as I climbed trees, as I ate dinner, as I watched TV, etc., etc.  In the mid 80's I would fall asleep every night seeing myself playing opposite Charlie Sheen in the movie 'Platoon'.  Why 'Platoon' and why Charlie?...who knows!!   Soooooo, if thoughts are indeed energy then bada-bing-bada-boom my daydreaming thoughts brought me to New York City...notice how the city is called 'New' York?  ;) 

Yep, this daydreaming, small town, farm girl grew up and became an actress.  My most recent role was in an indie film called "Rid of Me". http://ridofmemovie.com/ , which premiered last week in New York City at the Tribeca Film Festival.  Now that is a HUGE 'new' for me in many ways.  It was my first time being in a film that was in the Tribeca Film Fest (founded by Robert DeNiro) and the first time my acting has ever taken me to the Big Apple.

                          At the premiere of 'Rid of Me' at the Tribeca Film Fest in NYC...YIPEE!!!!!

I have been blessed with a Mom and a Dad that are not only my parents, but two of my dearest friends.  We always have such a great time hanging out together.  I am so grateful to say that both my Mom and Dad were at my side in New York City during the big Tribeca premiere of "Rid of Me".  My Mother's family immigrated to America from Poland through Ellis Island.  My Great Grandmother (Busia) always told the story of when she first saw the Statue of Liberty.  My Grandfather (Dziadzia) would often tell me why our family came to America from Poland.  He said it was so our family would always be able to live our dreams and live any life that we 'choose' to live.  He told me that I had to pursue my dreams and that I was never to quit.  

Up  until last week, my Mother had never been to NYC.  I have always wanted her to have the chance to visit Ellis Island, see the Statue of Liberty, and stand where her Grandmother once stood that day many years ago when she arrived in the 'new' country.  A few years ago, I told my Mom that my acting would one day bring us all to New York and that we would stand before the Statue of Liberty and thank our Grandparents for encouraging us, through example, to live our lives fully.  If people, alive and deceased, are energy, then it only makes sense that my Grandparents brought me to New York.  AND...they didn't just bring me to New York for vacation...they brought me to New York to live my dream.  I guess that is what we do in America.  The 'new' country, as my Busia called it.

                                            Living my dream with my Mom and Dad at my side

                    Dziekuje, Busia and Dziadzia.  (Thank you, Grandma and Grandpa)  xoxo

I have been to New York City twice before, but seeing it again with my Mom and Dad was new and exciting and more fun then the first two visits combined.  Guess What!!!...while in New York, I checked something off of my Bucket List.  Ever since I was a little girl, I have wanted to ice skate at Rockefeller Center.  I had no idea the ice rink was still there in April.  I thought it was just a Christmas thing.  While on our way to the Empire State Building, we walked pass Rockerfeller Center. I said, "OMG...they are ice skating!!".  My Mom said, "Go rent some skates and jump out there".  I said, "Hell NO...I haven't skated in 20 years and we don't have time".  My Mom, "How about that New Years Resolution of yours?".  Damn it, hate when my Mother is right.  LOL   If a Mom being right isn't energy, I don't know what is.  Before I knew it, I was on the ice, skating, giggling, and having the time of my life.  Of course I was, because I was experiencing the energy of a Bucket List.  Check this out.....I NEVER fell!!!  I ran into the wall several times, but never fell.  That was energy at its finest.  :)

                                    Skating at Rockefeller Center.."Look at me, Mom!!!"

The energy of intuition... While my trip to New York City was incredible, I was personally struggling with a lot of stress and fears that I just can't quite get life to work the way I 'think' I need it to.  During the flight to New York, I was listening to random music.  One of the songs that randomly came on during my flight was 'Let it Be' by the Beatles.  Nice theory, but if I am going to let everything be, everything could fall apart around me.  Sorry Beatles...but NOT!!!  My first two days in New York were nice, but there were a couple moments where I just wanted to bang my stressed out head against the wall.  Each time that I felt like banging my head against the wall, the words 'Let it Be' would pop into my head.  OMG, my wonderful Beatles, would you SHUT UP already!!!  On Sunday my parents and I spent the day in Central Park.  It was a beautiful sunny warm day.  Even though we all agreed to play the day by ear, my intuition kept telling me over and over to go look at a map of Central Park.  When we finally walked past a map, I stopped and took a quick look at it.  My eyes instantly went to a spot on the map called, "Strawberry Fields", which is an area of Central Park that is a memorial to John Lennon....how creepy is that??!!!!!  I told my Mom and Dad that I had to go there.  I'm not sure why, I just know that I am suppose to go there.  Once we got there, it all became so clear.  On the sidewalk there is a mosaic in honor of John Lennon.  In the middle of the mosaic is the word 'Imagine'.  I knelt by the mosaic, stared at that word, and hummed the song 'Let it Be'.  As quickly as the wind can blow past your face, every ounce of stress and silly worry I had just fell away from me.  All of a sudden it was crystal clear. Everything really is energy. The entire universe is energy.  The universe is not against me.  The universe is for me!!!  All the energies of the universe are always conspiring together for my highest good and to help me.  But, how can the universe help me, if I refuse to let go, if I won't  'let it be', if I am afraid to trust?  Maybe that is why they say, 'You are your own worst enemy'..yikes.   Boy oh boy, my life was blessed in that moment.  "LET IT BE"...my new mantra.  I even framed the picture of me kneeling by the mosaic and put it on my desk.  A way to remind myself that life is sooo precious that you just gotta let it be and enjoy the ride.

"Let It Be"..please click on the link below..

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ajCYQL8ouqw&feature=related

  

Lights, Camera, Action....yikes.....daring to be 'NEW'

 They say it takes a month to build a new habit.  On January 1, 2011 I decided to try one new thing a day for one year.  So far I have been sticking to my New Year's resolution for over three months.  I can honestly say that this 'trying new things' has really become habitually with me.  I use to have to think about what 'new' thing I was going to try each day, now it seems I am just in the flow of 'newness'.  I have kinda become a magnet for 'new' stuff.  A film maker buddy of mine approached me this week with a new idea.  He asked me if I had ever video taped myself learning one of my new skills.  "Hell NO", I told him.  "Well" he said, "then video taping yourself learning a new skill, would be doing something 'new'.  Crap...he was correct.  I hate that!  It is like a kid on the play ground coming up to me and saying, "I dare you".  So, I told me that he could video tape me doing something new this week.  Being the bumbling dork that I am, I had forgotten that I had just signed up for a pole dancing lesson.  Long story short....yes kiddies, cameras were rolling as I learned how to pole dance.  I might have to sell it to 'Funny or Die'.  LOL The footage is currently being edited together.  So...stay tuned, if you dare.

-As for my pole dancing lesson....it was INCREDIBLE!!  I was a bit nervous and shy at first.  Especially when I was first asked to swing around the pole.  I was so afraid I would look like a stork caught in a hurricane.  That is exactly what I did look like my first couple tries at it.  But, with a bit of practice, I got the hang of it.  Before I knew it, I was swinging around that pole like a pro.  When the music began to play, I totally got into it.  It was fun.  I felt beautiful, sexy, and in my power.  Even when I fell and tripped, I still felt great.  I was learning something new.  It was challenging me both physically and psychologically.  It was one of the biggest risks I had personally taken in a long time.  I went home feeling liberated, with a new sense of confidence, and a floor burn on my elbow.

Outside of the dance studio with my instructor and one of my besties just before my pole dancing lesson. Stay tuned for the video.  Yikes...I promise to post it.  I have to...it's 'new'.


-This week I went to Portland to help promote an indie film that I am in called, "Rid of Me", directed by James Westby.  I am proud to say that "Rid of Me" will be premiering at the Tribeca Film Fest later this month.  To kick off this film's journey to New York, a grand gala party was thrown.  The party was red carpet.  I decided to wear my  little black dress with my Grandmother's jewelry, and carry my great aunt's purse.  I LOVE using vintage accessories given to me by the wonderful women in my family, but I needed something 'new'.  A make up artist was brought in to do the makeup for all the ladies in the cast.  This was my chance.  In all my days of modeling and acting I have never had my eyes done with smokey eyeshadow.  Can you believe it?!!  I have never had my eye make up done 'smokey'.  It is something I have always wanted to try, but never quite knew how to do it.  I asked the makeup artist if she would smoke my eyes and she said YES!!!  Yipee!!!  A 'new' look for Melinda!!  I LOVED it.  I felt so sultry and mysterious.  This week's 'new' has really been all about allowing myself to be a woman...ROAR...it felt grrrreat!

-I fly often and I have always thought to myself that airports need to have spas in them.  Then travelers can spend their lay overs getting pampered and relaxing.  HOLY HANNAH.....Portland airport has a spa!!!!!  I was like a kid in a candy store when I saw that.  When you walk into the spa, it is like you stepped out of the airport and into a zen garden.  You can get a pedicure, facial, massage, or just take a nap on one of the soft reclining chairs.  In the spirit of 'new', I chose a treatment that I have never experience before...a foot bath.  As I laid back in a chair, my feet were placed in a hot tub of water and mineral oils.  My feet soaked for about 15 minutes and then a lady lifted my feet out of the hot water and poured ice cold water over them.  At first I was thinking, this is going to suck.  Never pre-judge a new experience.  It was incredible!!  The ice cold water was extremely refreshing.  It was like walking barefoot in a cold creek on a hot summer day.  Then she put my feet back into the hot water....Ahhhhhh.  After soaking my feet in the hot water for a few more minutes, the kind lady returned and scrubbed each foot with a green tea scrub, rinsed them with more hot water, and patted them dry.  All I can say is that I floated out of that spa and to my gate with a big grin on my face.  My flight was very relaxing and enjoyable.  How could it not be?  My feet were happy campers.

            Can you possibly think of a better way to wait for your plane to board?

***I promised my film maker buddy that as soon as he is done editing a very short clip of my pole dancing lesson, I would post it.  I really will.  I wasn't going to at first, but I changed my mind.  No matter how I end up looking flailing around that pole, I will post the final result.  I promise.  Ever since I started blogging about my New Years resolution, I have had several women contact me and tell me how my 'new' adventures have inspired them to try a new thing or two.  So, I figure, if me dancing around a pole will inspire another gal to dance a new jig or let her hair down once in a while, why not?  We women need to stick together, right?  As one of my favorite Broadway Muscial songs from 'Mame' says..."dance to a new rhythm, whistle a new song, toast to a new vintage, the fizz doesn't fizz too long..."

The NEW adventures of "Flat Stanley"

A dear friend of mine, from my home state of Illinois, contacted me a few weeks ago.  She told me that her first grade daughter had a school assignment she was currently working on called 'Flat Stanley'.  Flat Stanley is a paper doll that each student is to mail to someone who lives far away.  That person, who lives far away, is to take pictures of Flat Stanley's visit and then mail him and the photos back home.  The student then will get up in front of the class and tell all about their Flat Stanley's vacation.  I had never in my life heard of Flat Stanley.  Naturally, that means this would be a 'NEW' experience for me.  Sooooo.....I said yes and Flat Stanley was sent to California to spend sometime with Auntie Melinda.  

                                                                        Flat Stanley and I

Let me begin by saying that Flat Stanley is based on a 1964 children's book written by Jeff Brown.  The story is about Stanley Lambchop.  He is a young boy, whose father gave him a bulletin board for displaying his pictures and posters on.  Stanley's father hung the bulletin board above Stanley's bed.  One night the bulletin board fell on Stanley and flattened him.  Don't worry....Stanley soon realized that his new altered state was great for traveling. His parents could simply put him in an envelope and mail him to different places.  Pretty neat way to travel, huh?  Below is the link to Flat Stanley's website...

http://flatterworld.com/?nav=home

I was so happy to have Flat Stanley visit me for a couple weeks.  Here are some pictures of our adventures.

                                             Stanley goes to Disneyland and meets Goofy!!!!

                                                  Stanley on famous Hollywood Blvd.

                                                                 Walk of Fame Star

            Will Smith's hand prints outside of the legendary Grauman's Chinese Theater in Hollywood

                                               Stanley meets some of LA's finest heroes

                                                    Stanley goes to Los Angeles's China Town

                                                   Stanley goes to a California beach

                                               Stanley being held by a California surfer

                                                     Stanley and the Pacific Ocean

                                                           Stanley laying in the sand

                         Stanley by a California orange tree.  Boy did those orange blossoms smell good.

I sincerely enjoyed this NEW experience.  I think this is a great school project that is fun for everyone involved.  Flat Stanley has been spotted all around the world.  He has even been pictured with the President of the United States.  A Flat Stanley was found at ground zero.  Flat Stanley was also seen being carried off the plane that crashed into the Hudson River in 2009.  Flat Stanley does get around and he definitely connects the hearts of people around the world. 

 Thanks for visiting me Stanley.  I'll miss ya, little buddy.  xo

                                                                      

Tsunami survivor in Japan gives me a "New" gift. I share this gift with you. Please pass it on. xo

About two weeks ago I watched, helplessly from my couch, as an 8.9 earthquake and a tsunami totally brought death and destruction to Japan.  In all my life, I have never witnessed anything so horrifying.  I vowed to myself that I would never complain or stress out over the little troubles in my life every again.  Instead I would always choose to count my blessings.  HA!  Well, that vow lasted about a whole 48 hours.  Two weeks later and I am catching myself bitching about my life, stressing out over things I can't control, banging my head against the table as I balance my check book, and cursing that dryer that doesn't seem to want to dry my clothes.  "How dare my dryer NOT dry my uniform to wear to that stupid job that I HATE?!!"  WELL...God has a way of speaking to us all.  My friendly reminder from God came in the form of a letter from a woman who lives in the mist of the earthquake rubble in Sendai, Japan.  Now this is a woman, who one might think, should be pissed off about her situation, stressed out, crying, fearful, mad, and asking 'why me and my family?'  But she is NOT.  She and many people in Japan are choosing to use this experience to see life from a 'NEW' perspective.  They are finding 'NEW' blessings in a situation that most people would find dark and hopeless.  Please do yourself a favor and take the time to read this inspirational letter from a woman in Sedai, Japan....

Hello My Lovely Family and Friends, First I want to thank you so very much for your concern for me. I am  very touched. I also wish to apologize for a generic message to you all.  But it seems the best way at the moment to get my message to you. Things here in Sendai have been rather surreal. But I am very blessed to have wonderful friends who are helping me a lot. Since my shack is even more worthy of that name, I am now staying at a friend's home. We share supplies like water, food and a kerosene heater. We sleep lined up in  one room, eat by candlelight, share stories. It is warm, friendly, and  beautiful. During the day we help each other clean up the mess in our homes. People  sit in their cars, looking at news on their navigation screens, or line  up to get drinking water when a source is open. If someone has water  running in their home, they put out sign so people can come to fill up  their jugs and buckets. Utterly amazingly where I am there has been no looting, no pushing in lines. People leave their front door open, as it is safer when an earthquake strikes. People keep saying, "Oh, this is how it used to be  in the old days when everyone helped one another." Quakes keep coming. Last night they struck about every 15 minutes. Sirens are constant and helicopters pass overhead often. We got water for a few hours in our homes last night, and now it is for half a day. Electricity came on this afternoon. Gas has not yet come on. But all of this is by area. Some people have these things, others do not. No one has washed for several days. We feel grubby, but there are so much more important concerns than that for us now. I love this peeling away of non-essentials. Living fully on the level of instinct, of intuition, of  caring, of what is needed for survival, not just of me, but of the  entire group. There are strange parallel universes happening. Houses a mess in some places, yet then a house with futons or laundry out drying in the sun. People lining up for water and food, and yet a few people out walking their dogs. All happening at the same time. Other unexpected touches of beauty are first, the silence at night. No cars. No one out on the streets. And the heavens at night are scattered with stars. I usually can see about two, but now the whole sky is filled. The mountains of Sendai are solid and with the crisp air we can see them silhouetted against the sky magnificently. And the Japanese themselves are so wonderful. I come back to my shack to check on it each day, now to send this e-mail since the electricity is on, and I find food and water left in my entranceway. I have no idea from whom, but it is there. Old men in green hats go from door to door checking to see if everyone is OK. People talk to complete strangers asking if they need help. I see no signs of fear. Resignation, yes, but fear or panic, no. They tell us we can expect aftershocks, and even other major quakes, for  another month or more. And we are getting constant tremors, rolls,  shaking, rumbling. I am blessed in that I live in a part of Sendai that is a bit elevated, a bit more solid than other parts. So, so far this area is better off than others. Last night my friend's husband came in from the country, bringing food and water. Blessed again. Somehow at this time I realize from direct experience that there is indeed an enormous Cosmic evolutionary step that is occurring all over the world right at this moment. And somehow as I experience the events happening now in Japan, I can feel my heart opening very wide. My brother asked me if I felt so small because of all that is happening. I don't. Rather, I feel as part of something happening that much larger than myself. This wave of birthing (worldwide) is hard, and yet magnificent. Thank you again for your care and Love of me, With Love in return, to you all.

Still keeping it "NEW" in March...China Town, Live Mice, Fireworks, and a Great Cup of Coffee

ANOTHER WEEK OF NEW!!!!  Can you believe I have officially stuck to my New Year's resolution to try one new thing a day for over two months now??!!!   Well, I have, much to my own surprise, and I am still going strong.  This 'new' stuff kinda grows on ya.  It is fun.  It is exciting.  And...believe it or not...it's kinda easy once ya get started.

Some more new things I have tried in March...

-First of all, I have lived in Los Angeles for 12 years now and I have NEVER been to China Town.  I know, I know, this falls under the category of WTF???  But, so many of us do this.  There are great things to see, or do, or experience, that are just an one or two hour car drive away from our home, but we don't go do it. We tell ourselves, "I would love to do that.  I'll do it next pay check. Next month. Next year."  All of a sudden it is 12 years later and you're sitting around thinking to yourself, "Gee, wish I could think of something fun to do this weekend."  At least that has been my experience with a few things.  I can't help it.  My couch is so comfy and I love my HBO nights.  But, neither my couch or HBO are at all new to me. HA

                                                         The entrance to Old China Town

So, off to China Town I went.  I gotta say that China Town is probably one of my favorite new things so far.    Old China Town plaza was built in 1938.  As you enter the plaza through beautiful Chinese arches, you step into a traditional Chinese environment.  Lots of authentic food, beautiful jade jewelry, wonderful clothing, herb stores (the real thing....like... with live mice), and music that puts an elegant glide in your step. Many movies were filmed here including 'Rush Hour', 'Lethal Weapon 4', and of course, 'Chinatown'. I must have been grinning ear to ear the whole day. I was very excited to try Dim Sum for the first time.  My Dim Sum was a warm steamed dough wrapped around different meats like chicken and BBQ pork.  I liked it so much, I ordered three more to take home with me.
                               
                                                           My first bite of Dim Sum

  I also got to try 'homemade' mochi, which is a traditional Chinese dessert.  There certainly is something to be said for home made food served at an authentic restaurant.  I enjoyed my first Chinese beer, Tsingtao.  I explored many interesting shops and purchased two pieces of jewelery made from agate.  I couldn't leave China Town without having a fortune cookie.  My fortune read...."Experience life fully".  Talk about an ironic reminder.

-Anyone who knows me, knows that I have to have three things everyday...a glass of red wine, a cup of coffee, and chocolate.  My dream came true when I found two of my favorite tastes in one.  Coffee-a-Cocoa!!  Can you believe it??!!  I found a can of medium dark Brazilian coffee blended with unsweetened cocoa.  I almost didn't buy it, because it cost twice has much as my usual coffee.  However, in the spirit of 'new' I just had to treat myself.  I am so glad I did.  Little did I know, that with every purchase of Coffee-a-Cocoa, you get a complimentary can of Peppermint coffee.  Ok, even I gotta admit that Peppermint coffee sounds weird.  But, it was new and FREE!!!  The Coffee-a-Cocoa is amazing.  It is rich and full of flavor.  One of the best coffees I have ever brewed at home.  The Peppermint coffee was neat to try...a bit odd...but neat to try.  I don't think Peppermint coffee will be something I will brew every morning.  I do think it will be a fun coffee to serve at one of my dinner parties.

 -This week I decided to throw a new twist into my usual workout.  A personal trainer once told me that it is a very good idea to mix up your workout routine every three weeks.  Adding something new to my workout, not only keeps me from getting bored, but it is great for my physical health.  I recently met a woman who runs marathons.  She told me that she uses interval running to train for her marathons.  She runs for three minutes and walks for one minute.  She repeats this pattern over and over through out her run.  I am NOT training for a marathon, but I do try to run for 20 minutes at least three times a week.  This week instead of running for 20 minutes straight.  I tried the interval run for 20 minutes.  I rather enjoyed it.  I definitely didn't get bored.  I also felt like my body got a better workout by running in a new way.  I also got to use my stop watch again.  That made me feel so official.

-I LOVE LOVE LOVE Disneyland!!  I love it so much that last year I got an annual pass.  This allows me to go as often as I want to... and I do.  I swear I have explored every square inch of that magical happy place over and over again.  I could visit Disneyland a thousand times and never get sick of it.  But, I wasn't quite sure that I could find something new to do in a place that I have visited so many times.  HA...wrong again.  With the help of a dear friend, I found a few new experiences in my old favorite theme park.  My friend wanted to picnic in Disneyland.  I picnic in Disneyland almost every time that I go.  My friend suggested we picnic on Tom Sawyer's island...ding-ding-ding...NEW idea!!!  I couldn't believe it?!  I have never even thought of picnicking on Tom Sawyer's island.  We took the raft over to the island, found a bench near the water, and ate our picnic lunch.  As we enjoyed our lunch we watched the Mark Twain Steamboat and a Viking Ship sail by over and over.  It was so neat.  I felt like Becky Thatcher.  Later that evening I got to see the fireworks display.  I have seen the fireworks in Disneyland many times, but they are always just above the castle.  This time they were being sent off from every corner around the park.  I was literally surrounded by fireworks every where I looked.  Everywhere I looked...to the north, to the south, to the east, to the west...there was fireworks.   It was surreal and NEW!   Of course, I had to stop and visit my old buddy Pluto.  I gave him a big hug and told him thank you for always putting a fresh new smile on my face every time I come to visit the 'Happiest Place on Earth'.

-Last, but not least, I received a 'new' homework assignment this week.  A friend of mine back home in Illinois, has a daughter who is in elementary school.  She sent me a paper doll named, 'Flat Stanley'.  I am suppose to take several pictures of Flat Stanley visiting different places around Los Angeles.  I then send Flat Stanley and his photos back home to Illinois.  I will be sure to blog about all "The New Adventures of Flat Stanley" next week.  I think Stanley and I are going to have a grand time.  :)

Academy Awards, My Birthday, and Finding "new" in "old" traditions.

This week was full of lots of traditions.  I LOVE tradition.  My family taught me, through example, how important, fun, and full of blessings traditions are.  I treasure opportunities to celebrate and carry on old traditions.  I also am grateful for opportunities to start new ones.  The definition of the word 'Tradition' is... an inherited, established, or customary pattern of thought, action, or behavior (as a religious practice or as a social behavior).   Hummmm....how does my resolution to try "New" things fit into that?  This week I decided to look for the 'new' in the 'old'.

- Last week began with Oscar Sunday.  Hollywood's biggest night and a good ol American tradition.  I have lived in the Los Angeles area for 12 years now.  It has become a tradition to celebrate the Oscars every year.  I love, love, love, love carrying on this tradition.  To put it simply it is just a ball of FUN!!!  It is full of glamor, excitement, passion, and it reconfirms that America is a place where everyone has the choice to live their dreams.  We began our traditional Oscar celebration by having a glamorous champagne brunch on the Queen Mary.  The Queen Mary is an old cruise liner from the 1930's.  People like Clark Gable, Laurel and Hardy, Spencer Tracey, Betty Davis, and the Queen of England use to cruise on her.  The Queen Mary is now permanently docked in Long Beach, CA.  Her decor is kept as she was when she was sailing in the 1930's and 1940's.  Walking on board the Queen Mary is like stepping back into time.  I always LOVE going aboard this beautiful time capsule.  Yes, I have been to the Queen Mary and her Sunday brunch many times.  It is one of my favorite things to do in Southern California.  So, not new to me.  But, I took with me a few friends who have never been on the Queen Mary.  Much to my surprise, it created a new experience for me.  I got to see the Queen Mary once again through the eyes of people exploring her for the first time.  I even saw things on the ship that I have never noticed before.  For example, they had one of her gigantic propellers on display.  Oh my goodness, just one of her propellers is three times the size of my car!!!  

                                                            The legendary Queen Mary 
 While on the Queen Mary, I had another new experience through an old tradition.  The Queen Mary has been voted as having one of the BEST Sunday Brunches in California.  I would have to agree whole heartily.  The Brunch is served in what use to be the Grand Ballroom.  The food is elegant, delicious, and endless.  Free flowing champagne and caviar.  All this for just under $40.  Here is where the fun 'new' came in.  I have tried caviar before and quite like it.  My friends have never had caviar and did NOT want to try it.  I encouraged them to embrace the idea of trying something new and giving it a shot.  I have never laughed so hard in my life!!!!!  Watching each one of my friends try caviar for the first time and taking a picture of their first reaction to it, was not only a new experience for me, but tons of hysterical fun!!! 
Pictured below are "THE MANY FACES OF CAVIAR"

                                                      Melinda says...'Caviar is yummmy'

                                                          Caviar makes Adam smile.

                                                        Ramon gave Caviar a try...but......

                                                              Duane gives a thumb up

                                                              Sandy gives a big NO!!!


-This week ended with my Birthday!!!  Yeah...Happy Birthday to me!!!!!  Of course, I have celebrated my birthday many times.  Every year I look forward to celebrating my birthday at my favorite Italian restaurant with my dearest friends.  This year was no different.  My heart just had to carry on my birthday tradition.  I also knew in my heart that I would find many new moments in this cherished tradition.  HAHA....and yes I did!!!  I did everything from inviting new friends that I had not invited in the past years, to trying a new item on the menu, to trying a new wine.  Then a super 'newbie' occurred.  There is a nightly tradition at this restaurant.  Once a night they play Dean Martin's 'That's Amore'.  All the guest and all the waiters sing along with glasses of Chianti in their hands.  This is always my favorite part of the night.  I always join into the singing with full commitment.  This year, for the first time, one of my friend's video taped me singing and participating in this joyful, wine induced, tradition.  Then my friend immediately posted it on FaceBook.  God bless social media.  I actually enjoyed watching myself.  Who am I kidding?  I almost peed myself watching this video.  I would love to share this 'new-moment' video on my blog.  I'm in the mist of trying to figure out how to do that right now.  I figure, why not share good 'new' comedy.  HA!  Stayed tuned.

                                                                 My birthday dinner
                                                       
-Speaking of social media, I am really in the 'new' with this one.  I just started Tweeting for the first time this year.  I have also just started really using FaceBook as a way to do some business net working.  The whole thing is rather new to me.  My resolution to try more new things, has really encouraged me to explore this new way of socializing.  I'm not only getting the hang of it, I am starting to enjoy it and make some great business contacts.   This week social media added something new to an old tradition.  On my birthday I always get birthday cards in the mail from my family and some close friends.  I have always enjoyed the tradition of giving and receiving birthday cards.  This year I experienced a new twist on this old tradition via social media.  I woke up on my birthday, made some coffee, and sat down with my lap top and logged into FaceBook....HOLY COW!!!!  I had dozens upon dozens of the nicest birthday greetings.  I had birthday wishes from childhood friends, highschool friends, college friends, friends that I spoke to yesterday, and friends I haven't spoken to in so long I almost forgot about them...ooops.  I had birthday greetings from my parents, my brother, aunts, uncles, first cousins, second cousins, third cousins, second cousins-once-removed.  I even had birthday wishes from a few celebrities.  If that is not a 'new' way to hear Happy Birthday over and over and over and over again, I don't know what is.  Happy 'social media' Birthday!!  Fun new stuff!!!


-This week I tried another new food.  I only had a few minutes, so I was running through the grocery store trying to find a vegetable to make for dinner.  Out of the corner of my eye I saw the oddest looking thing in the produce section.  It was Romanesco broccoli.  I was like...what the heck is that and where are the carrots? Then, in the name of 'new', I stopped and said to myself, 'that weird thing is going to be dinner'.  Wow...it was pretty darn good.  It tasted like broccoli with a mild hint of cauliflower.  I drizzled it with a bit of olive oil, sprinkled it with garlic, and baked it in the oven for about 20 minutes.  I not only really enjoyed this new veggie, I googled some Romanesco broccoli recipes.  

                                 Romanesco broccoli, first discovered in Italy in the 16th century.


-For those of you who love the combination of salty and sweet.  I made another great new food find.  Chocolate brownies with sea salt.  I had to sit down to eat these.  Talk about a delicious weak in the knees experience.  Of course, this was another Trader Joe's find.  Lots of new surprises in that store.  Thanks Joe.


This week just goes to show, there is new everywhere.  Even in the oldest of tradition.  You just gotta open your eyes, your mind, and your heart to the possibilities.